20060118

rs vs intimacy



Notice that the Heart Line is long and curved up well under the middle finger. A person with this long curvy line can be happy one minute and down the next, and it may not be due to whats happening in the relationship. Emotions fluctuate from moment to moment and run the full psychological range at any time. Each moment is separate from all the others and has its own emotional charge. A relationship with this person can be like a high speed emotional elevator. If he or she is emotionally "down in the basement" don't worry. Very soon the mood will dramatically change and shoot up to the top floor where the party is. The psychological mood changes come and go like the ocean tides and that keeps a relationship interesting.

The Expressive type person with this curved line ending under the middle finger lives in the practical "now". The future is tomorrow and is too far away to worry about. What is happening right now is the most important thing. This nearsightedness tends to make everything at the moment seem more important than future events and activities. Planning for tomorrow's activities are not part of this person's routine today. This often leads to problems in the future but that just insures lots of activities tomorrow and keeps life interesting!

The Expressive person is reactive, demonstrative and rational. She or he can devote full attention to enjoyment of all the senses. This may seem self-indulgent to others but at the same time they are envious of someone who can live and enjoy so much in life. If the middle finger is straight and strong, this Expressive person is not likely to get involved in taking care of other people's needs at the expense of her or his own needs. The Expressive type person is more "me" oriented than the Nurturer type with a Heart Line ending below the index finger (The Nurturer would be more focused on pleasing the partner).

Some words that are often used in psychology to describe the Expressive person are exciting, dynamic, unpredictable, alive, real, vivacious, intense, energetic, and active. A relationship with an Expressive type person is a wild ride!

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